平凡人的因缘 --- 观后感

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《前度人生》两个儿时亲密伙伴因为一方要移民而只能分开，但一直心里惦记着对方，“藕断丝连” 的故事。

非常贴近现实的作品，没有轰轰烈烈的跨越国界和大洋阻隔而一定要在一起的爱情，只有基于现实和自身追求而做的取舍和平衡，但是心里依然保留着那丝惦记和牵挂，抑或是不舍。这就是所谓的因缘吧。

人与人之间就是这样，有些人只是你人生中的过客，在某个时间点有一段共同的经历，在这个过程中有快乐，有爱，可能还有痛苦和恨，然后又因为各种原因而断了联系。另一些人则会让你一直有所惦念，虽然远隔万里但依旧以各种形式保持着联系。

这部电影也很好得诠释人与人之间的这种因缘，男女主在儿童期，青春期，成熟期这三个不同时期的交往片段突出了因缘的感觉，虽然在这些交往中没有过于强烈的情感表达，但是这正是普通人的交往方式吧，平淡、自制、但又温情脉脉，一切强烈复杂的情感都蕴藏在克制的举动和言语下。这部电影把这些东西通过简单的台词表现得玲离尽致。

令我印象最深的是男主对女主说的一段话，大致意思是“ 我喜欢你，因为你敢于追求自己想要的东西，如果你当时不选择出国，不去追求你的理想，那你也就不是我喜欢的那个人了”

这就是因缘吧。

看完之后回想，如果当初自己没有出国，只是一直呆在老家，对这些或许不会有什么体会。因为出国，因为身处人员流动性巨大的环境，才深刻体会到因缘这个词的含义。

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